I received this invite a few weeks ago. It was sent to me by two friends who are hosting it for another friend of ours. I cannot attend the shower because of a prior commitment (LA RenFest!!). I had wanted to knit them a baby blanket but now really don't want to. I have tried to keep in touch with friends I had in college. I was (not sure if I still am) part of Sigma Alpha Iota in college. It's the International Music for Women. I am super happy I did it. I made amazing friends through it. I just don't understand how someone can say that they haven't seen me in a long time and say we should get together for coffee but never make any plans. People that were once important in my life, really aren't anymore. Why invite me to a baby shower if you don't keep in touch with me and have no intention to? I'm just confused by this whole thing.
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Meh, don't bother. If someone isn't keeping in touch with you and then wants you to come to a gathering where you're expected to bring gifts... it's a bad idea.
i agree with Jamie.
Meh, don't bother.
Thanks, ladies :)
Well, now I feel awful. I would LOVE to get together with you sometime. Email/text/anything. let me know your schedule and you will have a coffee date!!
As for the baby shower. I wouldn't go. Actually I haven't gone to a few of them (bridal or baby) for people that we knew in college. I don't see the point. I dont' talk to them and they don't talk to me. We say hi in passing if we see each other out, but that's it.
Oh, for SAI I tried to join the Alumnea but...alas I'm too busy for all of that. I could get you the email to Fran if you want to participate more with them.
Pam, still thinking about it
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